The power of forgiveness

While beginning to write this post I was watching an interview in the morning show with polish-greek singer Eleni. In 1994, almost 20 years ago, she lost her only 17 years old daughter Aphrodite who was murdered by her ex-boyfriend who couldn’t stand their break up.

I was only 4 years old then, but I heard about it when I was big enough to understand it. I think all Poland knows about it.

I was listening to Eleni and I was really impressed by her. Her strenght and serenity is something we should learn from her. I can’t imagine myself to continue my life after losing my only child in such tragic circumstances. I think my life would finish with death of my baby.

She forgave the murderer. She did something most of us can’t imagine to do. I don’t think I could ever forgive person who take away my most precious gift from God. She couldn’t accept the death of her daughter, yet she forgave the killer.

Her parents taught her that we can’t live with negative emotions, that we have to think positive. We can’t repay evil for evil. She says that now she feels peace in her heart and thus it’s easier for her to carry her pain for the rest of her life.

I admire her and people like this. She found strenght to forgive the killer. Someone who killed her daughter. Her faith in God is incredible. She did something what saints do. She forgave the biggest sin.

Many people in such situations live with pain and bitterness for the rest of their lives. They blame themselves and keep thinking how they could change things and save their loved one from such tragic death. They keep living  this day they lost their loved their husband, wife or child.

But there are people like Eleni who shows us the power of forgiveness. We can learn from such people and let God be our guide. Even though it’s hard for her to live and perform she keeps doing it. She knows her daughter is with her. In her heart.

xoxo

 

SLP#2: Good will

It’s time for the next Self Love Project post. I was thinking for the last few days what I like in myself. Another good value in me is having a good will.

I remember all bad things people have done to me. But I forgive. I believe people are good and they deserve another chance. Sometimes it turns aganist me, but I’ll never stop being like this.

Also, even if I fight with a friend and we don’t speak to each other I’ll forget everything and be there for them when they just needs it. I’m not the kind of person to push away people I’m mad at when they need me.

I’m sure many people use such sitatuations and just use people with a good will. I many times suffered, because I believed that someone is a good person and in the end our relation became toxic.

Even though all those bad moments, I’ll never change. I’ll always be this wiser person to forget if someone apologizes me. If more people were like that, world could be a one, happy place.

xoxo