Many people settle for the love they have, because they are afraid they will stay alone. They agree for the life they have, because they don’t know the future.
I know that by my own experience. I stuck to relations, because I was afraid I’ll be alone. As everyone I want to share my life with someone, have a family and be happy. But sometimes we settle for safe life instead of happy life.
There are a lot of unhappy people getting divorced after many years of marriage. They realize in the end this is not what they dreamt about. They get courage to fight for their happiness late. Not too late, but late. They could do it much earlier.
Why people stick to what they have? Why they don’t have a courage and faith to fight for what they really want?
I think people are scared. We don’t know what future gives. We don’t know when we will find our dream love. Maybe it will be when we are 20, 30 or maybe even 60. Either way, it’s worth to wait.
I realized after relations I had that this is not what I want. I want crazy, passionate and real love. I don’t want to settle for something average. I believe every person will find their perfect match. Sooner or later it will happen.
Even though I’m rather a pessimist, I’m love optimist. I believe it will come to me. I just need to be patient. Everyone needs to be.